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Bald Is A Different Experience

admin — Tue, 29 Nov 2011 04:38:38 +0000

Walking around with pink and purple hair was powerful and I suppose I thought that being bald would be similar – but it isn’t.

Pink hair seemed to invite comment and questions. Purple hair won me a lot of compliments. Bald brings silence.

It’s not uncomfortable – exactly the opposite. It’s a considerate one – a careful, thoughtful, non-reactionary silence.

They don’t stare and they don’t ask questions.

I’m guessing that they’re assuming the worst. A woman walking around with a freshly shaven head might be going through something serious and they don’t want to say or do anything that might upset me.

My baldness is voluntary and certainly no cause for concern, but I appreciate the thoughtfulness of others.

Even if I do miss the attention I was enjoying with the kooky colors

P.S. My St. Baldricks fundraiser is all over, but you can still make donations to them if you want to.

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My First Bald Day

admin — Sat, 26 Nov 2011 05:07:11 +0000

Well, it is done – I am bald.

It’s funny that I thought of today as the ‘last day’ of my St. Baldricks fundraiser. How ridiculous that is – for heaven’s sakes I’m going to be bald for weeks now LOL!

My son’s girlfriend volunteered to shave my head. She has a great love for doing unusual things with her hair so she has experience with the clippers.

We did take pictures and we did video tape the final moments as she shaved my head down close to the scalp. I’m just too tired to get that video put together tonight – so please be satisfied with this for now:

Yes, I am one tough looking mama now

My Last Purple Day

admin — Fri, 25 Nov 2011 03:53:42 +0000

Today was a wonderful Thanksgiving holiday spent with family. I hope that you were able to spend at least part of your day with someone you love and feel loved by It’s a great privilege if you did.

As I wrap up this day and recorded a final ‘purple’ video for my St. Baldricks Fundraiser (which ends tomorrow) I have to say that I feel very blessed.

My life isn’t ruled by a child’s fight against cancer. I don’t wake up every morning wondering what battle my child will face during the day and I don’t lay my head to rest every night in fear of what tomorrow may bring.

That’s the reality for so many moms and dads out there who’s child has been diagnosed with cancer.

Thinking about it makes me want to cry – and be grateful there is an organization like St. Baldricks doing such important work – funding childhood cancer research.

I had the sweet freedom to decide to take a few weeks out of my otherwise normal life and get a little crazy with my hair to spread the word about what they do. For that I am thankful.

For those of you that think I’m doing something heroic by shaving my head – put that idea out of your mind. THIS is nothin’. THIS is easy!

What families face when childhood cancer comes into their lives – THAT is heroic. THAT is amazing.

My thoughts on this last ‘Purple Day’:

Fundraiser Pffizzle… Help Me Turn It Around This Week!

admin — Mon, 21 Nov 2011 05:04:35 +0000

If there’s anything I’ve learned from my years as an internet marketer, it’s that I’m always going to be learning.

I definitely learned something with my St. Baldricks Fundraiser and that is that online fundraisers should be fast and furious – not slow and steady.

Let me explain

I’ve been doing fundraisers on the net for several years. It all started with a friend’s need – then another and then another. I reached out to the online community and raised hundreds of dollars and then over a thousand. In the last effort over $7000 was raised. In every case the money was raised fast – which very little advance notice.

When I decided to do this St. Baldricks fundraiser I thought if a fast, last minute fundraiser can raise so much money – a carefully planned fundraiser should be a piece of cake – so I confidently set my goal to raise $5000.

I pre-warned my community about the fundraiser so they could plan ahead. I pre-organized several key partnerships to help me spread the world. I gained the support of many marketers with a large circle of influence. With all of this great planning and cooperation, I fully expected to see a huge response to the fundraiser!

And then… pffizzle.

From the last week of October to now I’ve raised an embarrassingly low amount: $168.00

If you could only imagine how ego deflating that is LOL!

Here’s a peek into my thoughts: “But I’ve got a great tribe of generous people! I’ve got awesome key partners spreading the word! I’ve done everything right – how can this be going so bad?!”

Obviously I didn’t do everything right.

I looked back at all of the fundraisers of the past. They were grassroots driven, urgent and personal. I looked at my St. Baldricks Foundation fundraiser and while I see certainly see the urgency of it – I’m guessing others don’t. St. Baldricks is a national charity. It’s been around for years and will continue to be there for years to come.

It’s not that people don’t care about St. Baldricks, I’m not saying that at all. I realized though that by giving my fundraiser an entire month to play out, I failed to create a sense of urgency.

I expected that the extra time would build excitement, instead it seems to have built in procrastination!

There is no doubt in my mind that my circle of influence intends to support me in this, they just been thinking ‘I have time – no hurry’.

Ok, so lesson learned. I’ll stick to fast and furious fundraising in the future

And, since we only have FIVE days left before I’m set to shave my head on Black Friday – let’s shake off all procrastination!

It’s Purple Week!

My hair has been yellow, pink and now it’s purple.

Purple is the color of Passion and I am passionate about making the most of this last week – and raising all of the money I can to fund childhood cancer research.

I am pulling out all the stops and have a few good friends stepping up to help me.

NOW is the time to give and it IS super urgent!

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This Week I Learned That Pink Hair is Powerful

admin — Thu, 17 Nov 2011 03:47:24 +0000

It’s Pink Week in my St. Baldricks fundraiser and my hair is indeed VERY pink.

Dyeing my hair different colors sounded so fun back on October. I imagined that it would really help me draw attention to the fundraiser – and while it has helped me capture a few new eyes online – it’s the offline world that’s really reacting to it.

I put the pink color on my hair on Sunday afternoon and with the first swash of hot pink goop I had a moment of real panic. “This is SO bright! Is this absolutely crazy? Oh my goodness – what am I doing!?” Later as I combed through my glossy pink hair I decided it wasn’t so bad – it looked kind of cool.

I recorded this video and took the picture you see here in this post. It felt good and I thought to myself, “I can handle this.”

Then on Monday afternoon I had to run out to Meijers. I jumped in the car, looked into the rear view and the panic came back. I walked through the store so fast and kept my eyes down – I felt so conspicuous! I was sure that everyone was staring but I wasn’t about to look around to confirm it. I got my shopping done and zoomed back home to hide.

Tuesday is my day to volunteer at the women and children’s shelter in Lansing. I seriously considered making up an excuse to not go – but I sucked it up and went.

Is Pink Confident & Friendly?

To my great relief, people at the shelter responded with interest and even some admiration. One of the shelter leaders complimented my hair right away and said she wished that she were gutsy enough to do something like that. (I sure wasn’t feeling gutsy at the moment so it was a nice compliment.) I got to tell quite a few people about St. Baldricks and my plan to shave my head next week. Nobody had a negative reaction – to my face anyways. Who knows what some people may have thought and kept to themselves.

What was great was that people who hadn’t previous talked to me, obviously felt comfortable talking to me with pink hair. I wonder if it makes me more approachable?

Since then I’ve run lots of errands and been several places. I no longer rush through and avert my gaze. I found that I got a lot of smiles from strangers, way more than usual. Strangers spoke up and complimented my hair. They asked about it, how permanent was the color? I found it interesting that they assumed I’d be willing to talk about it. I was willing – and happy to have another chance to mention St. Baldricks.

Is Pink Sexy?

Today in particular I noticed how differently men treated me. As a 45 year old woman that weighs close to 300 pounds, I’m used to men treating me like I’m invisible. With this hair, I’m certainly not invisible to anyone, but I can’t believe how many more men say hello to me. Does the pink hair trump the weight in some way? Does it make me appear more sexy? What a nice idea LOL!

Is Pink Bad Ass?

I had a flat tire today. The people at the little garage in town got me in quick and took care of it. As I paid for their services the gal at the desk was smiling at me with this deep approving ‘look’ on her face. I knew what the look was about. She was saying with her expression ‘You’re a rebel and its awesome!’. I walked out feeling at least a full inch taller than usual.

What do you think? How do respond to people who do really unusual things with their hair and appearance? Do you make assumptions about them, good, bad or otherwise?

So far my experience has been pretty great. Enough to make me look forward to next week’s purple goop

My Hair is Yellow This Week: St. Baldricks Fundraiser Update

admin — Mon, 07 Nov 2011 00:09:37 +0000

Changing hair color is all part of the plan to raise $5000 for St. Baldricks Foundation. Changing my hair color to a bright yellow – was not part of the plan! I was going for a white platinum blonde – the perfect prerequisite for a bright pink to come later this week.

Last night, when my hair was still a bit damp I tried to convince myself I’d come close. But this morning, my young great niece’s first words if the day erased my delusions: ‘Aunt Kelly, Why is your hair yellow?‘

Oh well, I’m going with the flow – or should I say glow?

If you haven’t already, would you make a donation to St. Baldricks this week?

Also, would you take some time to spread the word about my $5000 goal? Any social media buzz you can send my way would be so appreciated

Thanks in advance!!

I’m Raising Money For Children’s Cancer Research. Will You Help Me Go Bald?

admin — Fri, 21 Oct 2011 04:00:49 +0000

Last year I was snuggling with one of my great nieces when a commercial came on for St. Baldricks Foundation. It pulled on my heart strings so I looked up the organization the web. I learned that they do great work, raising money and awarding grants to those who do childhood cancer research.

With a name like St. Baldricks you can probably guess how they do their fundraising… volunteers, both individuals and group, come together to raise awareness and cash – and as the website says, ‘Make a Bald State for Kids with Cancer’.

Make a Donation to St. Baldricks Here

Yeah, that means what you think it means – volunteers have their heads shaved!

Strangely, this didn’t scare me off. As I looked around their site and viewed pictures of men and women getting their hair buzzed off - thought to myself, ‘I have to do this!’.

I don’t know why I felt so sure about it. I have not personally been touched by childhood cancer. No one in my family and no one in my circle of friends have ever fought a battle with childhood cancer. So this isn’t ‘personal’ as it probably is for lots of other people – but it is important to me.

I can’t imagine what a family goes through when their son or daughter falls ill and gets a cancer diagnosis. My heart breaks for parents who lose a child and for the child who survives their cancer but grows up with lasting physical challenges. It’s not possible to think about it and not want to take up the fight against it.

I realized there is no time like the present.

I was chatting with a friend about St. Baldricks this past week told her how I wanted to participate – maybe next spring – and then it hit me, why wait? I’d already waited over a year. Why put it off another six months? What am I doing that would keep me from going for it? Nothing! I went back to the website and signed up right then.

Besides being hooked by their commercial, I’ve chosen to work with St. Baldricks because their system for distributing funds makes good sense to me. I like that they are making specific grants to individual researchers who are tightly focused in a particular issue. Like this grant to a doctor at the Indiana University School of Medicine. I’m glad that the money we raise isn’t poured into some large, nameless, faceless organization. We see who gets grants and what they’re focusing on.

My goal is to raise $5000 for St. Baldricks by Black Friday, November 25, 2011 – and on that day I’ll have my head shaved live via streaming web video

Take a good look – I won’t have this hair a month from now!

Wanna Help Me?

I’m promoting the fundraiser over on my blog network. We’re going to have a lot of fun with this and do everything we can to get donations.

Make a Donation to St. Baldricks Here

I would appreciate any and every way you would help me get the word out. Tweets, Facebook shares, blog posts, email blasts, tell a friend – anything would be great!

To prepare would you…

Follow me on Twitter and Circle me on Google Plus so you can retweet and share my updates.
Follow Mom’s Talk Network on Twitter and like Mom’s Talk Network on Facebook for the same reason.
Plan to share the fundraiser with your circle of influence once or twice over the next month? You can link to Mom’s Talk Network, the fundraiser is featured on every page.
Contact me about interviews – I’d love to talk about St. Baldricks and my fundraising goal! (Email: mom@momstalknetwork.com)

By the way, all donations are made directly to St. Baldricks through their website. This keeps it simple and secure for everyone.

Thanks in advance for your support – let’s link up and take a serious swing at childhood cancer!

Could I Be A Vagabond?

admin — Tue, 03 May 2011 01:44:35 +0000

I’m spit balling another big change in my world.

I’ve moved five times in the last five years – and find that I like it. Well, I don’t like the act of moving – but I like a changing scenery. (I haven’t always been that way, I did own a home for over ten years.)

What if I could have the changing scenery I enjoy and not need a moving truck every year or so?

I’m considering the idea of living in an RV.

I’ve been turned to the idea by Tynan, a self employed programmer who lives full time in a smallish RV. (Watch this video to see a complete tour.)

As I watched and read several great posts on his blog, I wondered – could I do that?

Could I live in a super small space?
Would I feel comfortable sleeping in an RV 365 days a year?
Would managing a home on wheels be too overwhelming?
Would I miss having a full home?
Would I love the freedom to travel around?

I need to mention I’ve never slept one night in an RV and haven’t ‘camped’ in any way since I was a teenager.

I’m not heading to the RV dealership today – don’t worry that I’m going to jump into anything too fast.

This is something I’m going to keep exploring though. I’d love to give it a fun test run if nothing else.

What do you think? Could I be a vagabond or am I too attached to a big home office desk, my own washer and driver and a private garage?

Update, September 2011

I’ve given this a lot of thought and dream time. I do see at least a summer or two spent on the road in an RV, but I realize I would not like it long term. I’m going to be educating myself about RVs for now and keeping an eye out for my perfect fit.

If You Know Who You Are

admin — Fri, 22 Apr 2011 09:34:53 +0000

If you know who you are, you won’t worry about what other people think.

If you know who you are, you’ll never be jealous.

If you know who you are, you’ll be inspired by the success of others.

If you know who you are, you’ll learn from your past.

If you know who you are, you’ll be motivated by your future.

If you know who you are, you’ll embrace your gifts.

If you know who you are, you will pursue your dreams without shame.

Hyper Me

admin — Tue, 12 Apr 2011 15:43:27 +0000

I’ve been diagnosed with hyperthyroidism. A big scary word to say that my metabolism is on hyper-drive.

It’s actually a relief to know it – it puts a name to the problems I’ve been having over the past months.

Half the day I’m exhausted, half the night I can’t sleep and most of the time I’m literally vibrating inside.

It started with the leg weakness, I thought I must have gained weight over the summer – but everyone was telling me I looked like I was losing weight. I finally stepped on a scale and found I’d lost 40 pounds in three months – without trying.

In the time since then, I’ve joined the gym, restarted Weight Watchers and lost another 21 pounds.

I’d love to embrace this revved up metabolism, the weight loss is sure fun - but unfortunately, all of the other symptoms have rocked my world in a negative way.

It’s hard to work when your body is trembling all the way to your finger tips and your brain is in a fog of anxiety. It has been a rough couple of months to say the least.

Now that I know what I’m dealing with, I am ready to fight it!

Hyperthyroidism is treatable but I don’t like the sound of the treatments that most recommend. I’m leaning towards trying some natural remedies first. To begin, I have to drop caffeine and reduce sugars in my diet which will be challenging for me. I’m also going to check out some herbs that help to calm the thyroid.

I have to cut sources of stress in my life – which probably means trimming off the side projects I’ve been running in my business. I’m thinking about selling the design leg of my business as providing services is the most stressful thing I do online. It is a great source of income though, something I can rev up at will when I need extra dough, so it’s a big decision for me.

I have to say I am so glad for passive income and residual affiliate commission. With so much down time for me this year, I’ve relied on these streams of income a great deal. If I had ever relied on hourly income for my living, I’d be in a big trouble right now.

Something for all entrepreneurs to think about. Are you building a business that can sustain you through hard times? If you’re not sure – don’t waste anymore time – dig in and find ways to add passive and residual income over the next few years

You won’t regret it!

Update, September 2011

I saw an Endocrinologist in August and started what I call an absolute miracle drug. I won’t go into details but say that I feel great! My strength is coming back and I feel like myself again. Special thanks to everyone who prayed for me and took the time to encourage me. I appreciate it more than you know.